Have you ever found
yourself asking ,
"what if this happens, what if
that happens"?
Try the following* * *
* Breathe. (Are you chest breathing?? Try to bring it down and do abdominal breathing)
* Remember, symptoms won't hurt you. (They are merely your body's way of telling you to think differently.)
* Use positive self-talk. (Not always easy to do when you are anxious, so call somebody or listen to a tape/CD).
* Being anxious is okay. So is the whole spectrum of feelings that one might have...happy, sad, angry etc. Give yourself permission to feel. Fighting it only makes it worse.
*
Use the adrenaline in a constructive way. All the energy you are
feeling can be used for some exercise. Run around the
block. Clean out
a drawer. Anything except adding fuel to the fire.
* Distract yourself. Count your change. Count the bricks used on your home, or your neighbor's. Grab an ice cube, take a shower.
* Think about
it...you've come a long way. Yes, you have made some
strides. Have you given
yourself credit? It doesn't matter how small it is, you deserve
to
throw yourself a party!
*
Put your "Positive Glasses" on
and
see how much farther you can go. Get excited about it!
*
Let time pass. Nothing lasts forever.
IT WILL GO AWAY!!
* If all else fails, BREATHE!!
again and again and again
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